Being unable to find out if my mother was dead or alive in
Puerto Rico for five days post-Maria was terrifying, especially because she had
a broken leg and was housebound. I learned a lot from this horrendous
experience, mostly that you need to have a plan in place BEFORE a disaster. And
that plan has to be more than “Call me as soon as you can.”
Here are my hurricane-inspired guidelines for communication in emergency situations.
1. Phone. The
most frustrating aspect of the Hurricane Maria emergency was the complete lack
of working phones anywhere – not just on the island, but on widely
shared lists of governmental aid agencies like FEMA. NONE of those numbers
worked, even when their area codes were in places not affected by the
hurricane. Here’s a newsflash: you will not be able to rely on the government
for communication in case of an emergency. It will be private citizens and NGOs
that make things happen.
That said, even though phone service may be out for days, phones are still your first line of defense. Create a network of
friends and family in different states and even countries. If the person in the disaster zone can get through to even one, he or she can spread the word to the rest of the network. Create your own plan,
with people you know and trust, and watch out for each other.
Note that sometimes texting
works even when regular phone service doesn’t. Keep calling and texting. At some point, phones will come back online. D on't fill up voicemail in case others need to leave messages.
Oh, and keep your phone charged! Have at least one portable charger
like this one and keep it/them charged too.
2. The Red Cross.
If you are in an emergency, register with the Red Cross ASAP, and tell your
network to check the Red Cross registry for you. The Red Cross was the ONLY functioning
entity I came across in the 5 days I desperately sought information. Their
website worked smoothly (my mother was not registered on it) and a real
person answered the phone when I called to provide my info so they could
contact me when/if she did. Kudos to the Red Cross.
Her current phone can’t download the apps mentioned
here and she resists learning even lifesaving technologies. So what do I do? I
communicate with her neighbor, Rose. Rose’s cell service came back 5 days after
Maria; my mother’s cheapo service is still out. I will be discussing apps with Rose. I can't bake her cookies, but she will know how much I appreciate her help.
So if you haven't gotten to know your neighbors already, what are you waiting for? Share their information with your friends and family, and have them share yours with their own. Who knows? Some may even be ham radio operators.
My mom is fine. Me? I will be drinking heavily for a few more days.
List yourself as safe here.
Find out if someone is safe here.
You can also call the Red Cross about a missing person. The number is (800) 733-2767. I found it staffed by caring and competent people at a time I had almost abandoned hope that such a thing existed anymore.
And, in the belt-and-suspenders category, you can download the Red Cross Emergency App and use the "I'm Safe" button to post a message to your social media accounts. Text "GETEMERGENCY" to 90999. Like, right now.
You can also call the Red Cross about a missing person. The number is (800) 733-2767. I found it staffed by caring and competent people at a time I had almost abandoned hope that such a thing existed anymore.
And, in the belt-and-suspenders category, you can download the Red Cross Emergency App and use the "I'm Safe" button to post a message to your social media accounts. Text "GETEMERGENCY" to 90999. Like, right now.
3. Social media.
The only info I received specific to my mother’s neighborhood (Dorado) was on
social media. Anything outside San Juan or near a shaky dam was not mentioned
by the mainstream media. But on social media, I found people who lived in or
had family in Dorado, who informed me that the area was not badly hit. This
eased my mind somewhat (except late at night when the visions returned of my
mom and her dogs floating up to the ceiling of her flooded house).
Start tweeting and posting on Facebook with specifics about who
and what you’re looking for. After Maria, hyper-local Facebook groups sprang up
instantly, thanks to tech-savvy angels who know how valuable these resources are.
Through the Dorado subgroup and Facebook Messenger, I met a woman in Texas
whose parents live near my mother. She arranged to send someone by my mother’s
house to check on her! (Shoutout to American Airlines employees!)
I posted on my own Facebook page and received messages of support as well as unexpected information, including some from a friend whose aunt lives near San Juan. The kind thoughts and prayers sustained me. Shoutout to my friends!
Tweet to news sources and celebrities affiliated with the
disaster, whether through location, fundraising activities, affected family
members, etc. In the case of Puerto Rico, Jennifer Lopez, Lin-Manuel Miranda
and Ricky Martin were all actively tweeting. A tweet I sent “@” Lin-Manuel was
seen by someone who follows him – and that person got me info. The CNN reporter on the ground retweeted a message I sent him and someone contacted me with an
update on the area. The power of social media is REAL.
My mother is not on Facebook, but those who are can check in via the Facebook Safety Check next time. (God, please don’t let
there be a “next time”!) When enough people on FB post about a disaster, FB
activates Safety Check and people in the area get prompted to check in.
Google may have a similar service, but my mother has Google-induced
paranoia and refuses to use it – Bing all the way for her!
4. Apps. Internet
service may be out in a disaster-affected zone, but there are many methods of communicating.
Have your network download a couple of them, set up accounts, practice
communicating, pick favorites and be ready. I recommend:
·
WhatsApp Messenger and WhatsApp Calling (1
billion users, internet-enabled messaging and calls)
·
Zello (50 million users, long-distance walkie-talkie
functionality with no internet required)
·
Skype (500 million users, IM, voice and video
calls)
·
Firechat (1 million users, messaging without
signal or data)
·
Family Locator GPS Tracker (10 million users)
5. Ham radio. Yes,
it lives! I had not heard that term in decades, but a friend on Facebook
informed me ham radio worked in PR post-Maria. However, you must be a licensed
user, and operating a ham radio takes some knowledge. Best for you and those in
your network to find local ham radio operators while the sun is still shining
and the ground is not moving, bake them cookies and enlist their future aid.
More info here.
6. Satellite phones.
These are expensive and don’t always work. However, if you have one, keep it at the ready!
A word about the
elderly. My mother is in her 80s. She shuts off her computer at 5pm every
day so it can’t spy on her. She has a flip phone which she only uses to call “long
distance” cheaply. Until Hurricane Irma was headed her way, she had not been
aware that her phone could receive texts – and she still refused to learn how to send them. Years
ago, I convinced her to try Skype, but when she answered my call I saw her
naked and she immediately uninstalled it. (Too late – I can never un-see my
impending future body!)
So if you haven't gotten to know your neighbors already, what are you waiting for? Share their information with your friends and family, and have them share yours with their own. Who knows? Some may even be ham radio operators.
My mom is fine. Me? I will be drinking heavily for a few more days.
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